Forgiveness

The only way to learn forgiveness is to be betrayed, hurt, stepped on, abused to mention but a few. You might understand the intellectual concept of forgiveness, but you will only learn how to truly forgive, when someone has done something that requires you to love them and let it go. "Experience is the best teacher they say" and well i concur with them. Some people tend to say it's hard to actually forgive someone who has deeply hurt you, well it is, when you think about it, but nothing in this life is easy, besides the struggle of forgiveness is the hardest but once concurred its the sweetest. Our judgments of how we think our life should be is preventing us from reaching our highest potential. In this case you have to be the bigger person in everything you do, if you want to move on and lead a happy life. Never let other people go first. Life demands these hurtful experiences for you to learn how forgiveness feels, it could be no other way.  If there is anyone in your life that you must forgive, instead of seeing them as someone who has hurt you, try to see them as someone who was sent to teach you forgiveness and thank them for this precious gift - then forgive them, and let it go. Every desire you have at its core exists because you think attaining it will make you happy, see everything as a blessing and it will all add up :-)