What is Love

What is love? Love is a feeling of affection toward someone or something. We can love our pet, a bath tub, we can love God, we can love all of humanity, and we can love our Grandmother, we can love everything or everyone the difference is how we portray that love, so basically Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.

Love has no proper definition but to some, Love is

·         friendship set on fire for others

·         Love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it.

·          Love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  

·          A sensation that magically generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. Etc

How do you know when you love someone? You know you love someone when you know you want them to be happy, even if their happiness means that you are not a part of it.

True love is about wanting happiness for the person you love - and not about seeking happiness for yourself. Fortunately, in most cases our own loving presence is the greatest gift we can give to a person we love. Nonetheless, the litmus test of love is knowing we would choose never to see that person again if we believed that distance would bring them greater happiness. That is what I call loving someone the best.

All true love is wonderful, but let's focus here on the feeling of love by one specific person for another specific person. Even so, our love for our spouse is very different from our love for our child, our parent, our friend, or our love for the homeless person we pass a coin at the corner. The truest love cannot be explained. If one was to say, "I love her because she is beautiful," or "I love him because he is handsome," one would be describing conditional love. The implication is that if the other suffered an accident that scarred their face, the love would end, thus a break up.

Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love cannot be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it cannot be measured at all.   A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe

When you truly love someone, you love them exactly the way they are today - and exactly the way they turn out tomorrow, even if they have a disfiguring accident.

Love me when I least deserve it, because that is when I really need it.
- Swedish Proverb

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
It is not proud. It does not dishonor others,
it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
- Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV)

Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Most of us do not know the real meaning of love and sometimes people have to learn the hard way, I think Love is like a Sacrifice, because well you might love someone and they might not love you back.

Music

Music is my life, some times  i just update songs in my posts coz the have the right  message of what am thinking at the moment. Music heals my soul

She Said (Album Version)

The Song talks about a Mother who used to take care of her kids regardless of how she suffered, she didnt earn much but she could make sure there is food on the table for her kids, She used to encourage her kids even though it seemed like there was no hope. So now they are singing to thank her for everything she did to them, There is no greater love than the love of a Mother to her Kids

Frankie J - Daddy's Little Girl

Queries

The Sky

You look at the skies and see the clouds, very peaceful displayed on the sky and you wonder how all this came to be!!
why do we have the clouds in the sky, Will they fall on us any minute now? how are they even supported? why do they change color from white to Grey?

How can the sky accommodate the Sun, Moon and the Stars? When and how does the moon and the sun know how to alternate their time?

The answer is answered by so many scientific forces and theories. not to forget the biblical part of it.

Warren Barfield - Love Is Not A Fight

TRUST

What is trust? Reliance on another person or entity. Its opening up to people hoping that they will not take the advantage of your openness. someone said trust is like giving someone a gun and hoping that they won’t pull the trigger, well trust is special but I have to say once broken can never be recovered, I can also say :- Trust is earned, never given. You can’t trust anyone. It takes a true friendship  to build, but a fake little lie to tear down.

When someone doesn’t trust you then I can say that is not a good relationship because any relationship not based on trust is false. For instance in a love relationship, if you don’t trust you partner then the relationship is meant not to last, this is because if he or she acts in a strange manner even if he or she is not guilty you will always think he or she is, and that is bad for any relationship. That applies even to a business relationship, if a client doesn’t trust you for whatever reason they are bound to not work with you, because they know the business won’t run smoothly with some doubts involved. I believe trust is the most important strength in any relationship and that if you break that then you can never bring back the trust.

 We have different kinds of people; we have people who can give you their trust but once you lose the trust they won’t be able to tolerate you, but we have also the other kind who will give you their trust and once you lose it they might forgive you and you might start again, well that is rare and if you get that then you are one of the lucky beings around.

One thing you should always put in mind is that you should always trust yourself first in order to trust other people, another thing you should also know is you can trust other people but don’t put your all trust in it because no one is perfect and human beings are prone to do mistakes. So more often than not you will find people hurting you or breaking your trust, and then it will be easier for you to forgive them if you didn’t give them 100% trust. Myself I trust everyone I just don’t trust the devil inside them, which is the same thing as not trusting anyone, Well things are complicated that’s why we live.